A child is comfortable in their own skin, and knows who and what they want to gravitate too so you don’t need to worry so much about their friends or not. We know nobody wants to be bullied, and spoken to badly and one naturally will remove themselves and yet many schools want kids to fit in and not be an outsider.
Kid need more free time to be themselves, and less time being controlled with rules. They need time to play and scream, and yell, or dance or what ever, even shout – Kids sadly don’t have enough spare time in life to unwind, and be themselves –
I told my daughter, always play with people who lift you up and not groups that like to bring others down – Bullies are often the ones who are ‘overly controlled’ in their own homes and seek to be the controller of another on the playground. They are trying to fit in and sadly lack self esteem. If they had the right guidance in the early years they wouldn’t have the need to dominate another, or the believe that another could put them down.
Everyone is different, and our relationships are our learn curbs -the ones that push our buttons are often the ones who we learn the most from.
I personally think there is too much structure in the school systems with control… Schools lake joy, and if you asked most kids the best part of their day is being with their friends — and some of them, they have friends in other dimensions and comfortable with that too. That will be another issue the schools will soon have to deal with. Kids her see beyond the here and now..
More on that soon.
Hug those kids, Tricia.
More info in NEW ENERGY PARENTING